馮唐曾說，“成功沒有捷徑，但需要一些好習(xí)慣?！钡拇_，如果將人的各種命運(yùn)分解，試圖從中找出一些規(guī)律的話，那么良好的習(xí)慣，敢于抓住機(jī)遇的勇氣是比天賦更為重要的東西。
曾被美國(guó)《時(shí)代》周刊稱為“25位最有影響力的美國(guó)人之一”的柯維先生，也就是《高效能人士的7個(gè)習(xí)慣》的作者，曾專門針對(duì)孩子寫過另外兩本著名的書：《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》。美國(guó)學(xué)校把它歸納為孩子成長(zhǎng)的“7棵習(xí)慣樹”。
新學(xué)期來(lái)了，陪孩子一起慢慢養(yǎng)成這些好習(xí)慣吧！
1
Be proactive – You're in charge
積極主動(dòng)，我的人生我負(fù)責(zé)
I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.
我對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé)，做事積極主動(dòng)。我能管理好自己的行為、態(tài)度和情緒。我做了錯(cuò)事不推卸責(zé)任。君子慎獨(dú)，哪怕沒有人監(jiān)督，我也會(huì)努力自覺地去做正確的事情。
2
Begin with the end in mind – Have a plan
有目標(biāo)，有計(jì)劃
I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.
做事前我會(huì)制定計(jì)劃、確定目標(biāo)。我會(huì)做很多有意義、有積極影響力的事。我是班級(jí)里的重要一員，為學(xué)校事務(wù)貢獻(xiàn)自己的力量。我希望成為一個(gè)好公民。
3
Put first things first – Work first, then play
做事分主次，先工作，后娛樂
I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.
我會(huì)把時(shí)間花在最重要的事情上。勇于向不該做的事兒說不。我制定優(yōu)先級(jí)，做日程表，然后按計(jì)劃推進(jìn)。我自律同時(shí)做事有條理。
4
Think win-win – Everyone can win
有雙贏意識(shí)
I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
我勇于爭(zhēng)取自己想要的，但是我同時(shí)也會(huì)考慮別人的需求。我在別人的“情感銀行”賬號(hào)里放下我的存款（維系情感）。有矛盾的時(shí)候，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。
5
Seek first to understand, then to be understood
先去理解別人，再求被人理解
I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.
我仔細(xì)聆聽別人的想法和感受，努力從他人角度去理解問題，也不會(huì)打斷別人的話。我可以自信表達(dá)自己的觀點(diǎn)，與人交流時(shí)會(huì)直視對(duì)方的眼睛。
6
Synergize – Together is better
協(xié)同－合作會(huì)更好
I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups.I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.
我明白別人身上閃光點(diǎn)的價(jià)值并向他們學(xué)習(xí)。即便是和我很不一樣的人，我也能愉快地和他們相處。我很擅長(zhǎng)團(tuán)隊(duì)合作，也很善于聽取他人的建議，因?yàn)槲抑琅c單打獨(dú)斗相比，團(tuán)隊(duì)合作能帶來(lái)更好的解決方案。我保持謙遜。
7
Sharpen the saw – Balance feels best
磨刀不誤砍柴工，平衡為上
I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.
我關(guān)注飲食健康，鍛煉身體，保證睡眠。我常常陪伴家人和朋友。對(duì)我來(lái)說，學(xué)習(xí)的方法和場(chǎng)所都很多－絕不止于學(xué)校。我用有意義的方式去幫助別人。
“給孩子金山銀山，不如給孩子一個(gè)好習(xí)慣。”在孩子的幼年時(shí)期，讓孩子養(yǎng)成一些好習(xí)慣，對(duì)他的成長(zhǎng)甚至一生都會(huì)產(chǎn)生重要影響。
幫助孩子培養(yǎng)好習(xí)慣的最佳方法就是給他們做榜樣哦~在生活中，爸爸媽媽要以身作則，相信寶貝們也能積極效仿的！同樣，這些習(xí)慣對(duì)我們家長(zhǎng)也很適用，引導(dǎo)幫助孩子的同時(shí)，讓我們也一起來(lái)提升吧！
